We often find ourselves wanting change to happen in our lives and become weary when things don’t go to plan so we wonder why?
Many people tend to view the past as an event that defines them. personally I do too I often tend look back as if what happened still counts or many wonder what could have been if they made a different choice maybe my life would look different maybe things would have been easier. Our past problems can hold us back from so many new opportunities
Toxic relationships are one of the most reasons why some people cannot move forward I have grown up in an environment where I was exposed to these types of relationship luckily for me it’s not my parents but friends and close family members I have witnessed it many times. and most of the times it’s verbal and other times it’s physical theses factors tend to lower the self esteem of the victim in this relationship because the one does not want the other to succeed this too holds us back
Or maybe you are just insecure and feel like you are unworthy or maybe you are scared to move forward because there is a sense of normalcy in your life. you might feel like the change will be to drastic or you might be scared to leave
But take the risk there is much more to life than living in your mind wondering. don’t let the past, a bad relationship or insecurities get in the way of living the life you’ve dreamed about 🦋
shower thoughts 